mentally ill people don’t kill themselves because we have access to guns, we kill ourselves because we live in a fucked up society that tramples all over us and refuses to treat the actual fcking problem. Kind of like how liberals spend all their time trying to ban guns while glossing over that its exclusively reactionary white men killing everyone. fuck you and anyone else who thinks theyre helping me by refusing me access to a weapon lol. were not impulsive fucking children you patronizing ass

allthecanadianpolitics:

Yeah guns aren’t the cause of suicides, but THEY DO MAKE IT A LOT EASIER TO DO:

Suicide rates boosted by easy access to guns, researchers say

America’s lax gun laws are giving more and more kids an easy path to suicide

United States Scores Greatest in Global Firearm Suicide, Access Rates

Guns and suicide: A fatal link (Harvard University)

And yes, I do agree that much more needs to be done to help people with mental illness so that Suicide isn’t even a risk, but making it hard to access the one thing that makes suicides incredibly easy should be a common sense policy to put into place. And I’m saying this as someone who has lived with mental illness my whole life.

The link between fire arm availability and suicides is very strong for a reason.

joanielspeak:

overwhelmsion:

the-wolfbats:

lasrina:

alpacamyhedgehog:

marthawells:

obovoid:

i don’t want to achieve equality by sinking to men’s level, i want them to get on ours! why should i have to unlearn the conversational art of waiting my turn, unlearn sexual self-restraint, unlearn trust in others’ good intentions, unlearn the impulse to cater to others’ needs, just to have a chance at success among savages? why can’t the men learn some fucking manners so we can all conduct our affairs in a civilized manner? i shouldn’t have to stop saying sorry, you say sorry!

In the 80s when I was in my freshman year in college, they still had entirely separate mens and women’s dorms. I was in class waiting for a final to start and one of the guys was telling someone about how he had had to go into a women’s dorm to drop something off, and he was startled to see posters on the walls, flowers, curtains, etc. He said his men’s dorm had holes in the walls, things on fire, fights, guys walking around with open wounds and he just didn’t understand why they had to live like this. He said, “I want to live with the women, in civilization.”

Am reading Sisterhood of Spies, about women working for the OSS during WWII. One of the stories mentions that the women in London had a male visitor who would eat in their mess hall once a month. He was married and wasn’t interested in hitting on any of the women; he just wanted to eat in an atmosphere where people said “Please pass the butter,” instead of “PASS THE GODDAMNED GREASE”

I dated a guy who brought me along on group activities (movies, video game night, etc.) with four or five other male friends. Once I mentioned to one of the other guys that I hoped I wasn’t intruding on their “guy time” or some such. He got this sort of rueful look and said, “The truth is, I really like it when you’re here because it gives us a reason to act better. When it’s just guys, we all have to try to outdo each other with how vile we are.”

So the moral of these stories are men don’t even treat each other like human beings.

Me to my 6-year-old son: “You seem to like playing with the girls at school more than the boys. Why do you think that is?”

6-year-old son: “Sometimes I just don’t want to be pushed. It hurts and is mean. And the girls always pretend to be princesses or fun animals and stuff when they have tea parties. The boys just dump the tea all over the place. That’s just stupid and I don’t like wasting all that tea. It takes forever to make.”

Me: “Wow, I can understand why you’d rather play with the girls. The boys seem like they’re kind of rough.”

6-year-old son: “And when I play with the girls they make me the king because none of the other boys want to play tea party.”

Me: “Do you like being the king?”

6-year-old son: “Not really – I’d rather be a wizard, but it makes Georgia and Vivian happy.”