westafricanbaby:

organizedfresh:

getrealgetrightbysufjanstevens:

Honestly the shaming of girls for having “boring missionary sex” or whatever is so messy… girls are constantly pressured into doing things they don’t want to by virtue of tastes shifting to more ‘kinky’ due to a disgustingly pornified culture and there’s nothing wrong at all with wanting sex with someone to be just about intimacy and closeness…

Reblog forever. Destroy the idea that wanting sex that is primarily about intimacy, love, trust and respect is “vanilla” and therefore boring. Destroy the idea that participating in dangerous and degrading sex makes you more ‘interesting’ ‘evolved’ or ‘sexy’.

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