it seems so strange to me that the only people it is socially acceptable to live with (once you reach a certain stage in life) are sexual partners? like why can’t i live with my best friend? why can’t i raise a child with them? why do i need to have sex with someone in order to live with them? why do we put certain relationships on a pedestal? why don’t we value non-sexual relationships enough? why do life partners always have to be sexual partners?
No lie but I think my best friend and I are going to get married. (We’re definitely getting married if I re-enlist.) I broke up with my most recent ex and, well, he was always going to be part if my life and I kinda thought, yeah, this makes total sense actually.