Being a lesbian on dating apps
I also think the important thing to note here is that Tinder allows you to choose what searches you want to be included in [such as a nonbinary person wanting to be included in search results for men or women or both], which means if you are exclusively looking for women and a man’s profile pops up anyways, he has chosen to have his profile appear under women’s searches. That is not only a gross abuse of their gender-diverse system, it’s also a Big Ol’ Example of men feeling entitled to the attention of women, and specifically lesbians who have 0 interest in them.
Yeah I knew men who intentionally did that and it’s so fucking annoying too like 😑can gay women not have anything nice
also as I reblog I think it’s key to point out op is not a terf and is not referring to trans women, as some terfs in the notes are grossly misinterpreting this post that way
Registering as a bi woman on Tinder will also get you search results that are 98% men. I stopped using Tinder before they let people be nonbinary on there, though, mostly because I didn’t like the whole swiping people left (I think it’s left?) when they were actually pretty decent looking, just not my type.
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