tradeyourbrokenwings:

i really wish fathers understood that like you’re SUPPOSED TO financially provide for your child. you don’t get a gold ribbon for financially taking care of your child. You don’t get a reward for putting them for college. It should not be expected that a child is able to take care of themselves in all regards by the age of 14 and anything you do is a luxury.

additionally, you should be doing more than caring financially because YOU’RE SUPPOSED TO GUIDE YOUR DAMN KID. don’t get angry at your child taking you for granted when you feign any attempts to understand who they are, when you never attempt to better YOURSELF emotionally or respect their opinions as well.